Ruth at Paperback Trading Company

At first I didn’t remember that southwest had open seating, but I embraced the opportunity to pick my seat when I got on. Being in the last group to board, I knew that I would have the opportunity to pick my seat, so I looked around and found the most interesting looking, friendly looking person (with my limited options) and sat down. I knew like with most plane rides that I had to figure out my neighbors story so as the plane started moving I started talking and we didn’t stop till the wheels came out to land, 3 short hours later.

Here is the story of Ruth: The Chicago native, book store owner, cat lady, best grandmother to her only grandson, letter writer, and lady who believes love and respect to all is the way to a happy and good life.

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I cannot decide between two women

People constantly ask, usually with a bit of shock, how I could possibly do such a thing. A nice, trustworthy, honest guy, sneaking around, splitting my time between not one, but two women, and keeping it up for more than a year! My short answer is that I love each one for different reasons and I see a future with both – their interests and passions directly line up with mine. When I am spending time with each one, I feel empowered and confident enough to accomplish anything. I know that I will have to choose at some point. I’ll have to make up my mind and go full force with one while leaving the other behind. The conversation will be difficult; to discuss all we’ve been through and why I have to move forward with my other love… and if it’s even possible, to break up on good terms.

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